marriage…. is it all worth????
October 9, 2007 by jkpooh
suddenly tis thought had been hoverin in my mind lately….
wat is marriage… n is it all worthwhile???
pardon me.. bt woman at tis age wil sure tin abt it… frankly speakin mani 1 at my age are oreoli married…
bt den marriage is definitely nt an easy tin…
talkin abt marriage… its juz like my horoscope…. weighin e pro n cons…
me had always wanted 2 gt married… tinin abt hw gd it would be 2 hav sm1 w u… sharin all e gd n bad events in life…. in fact im a family girl (juz in case nobody knws abt it… haha…) i had always wanted 2 set a family of my own… of coz w e special 1… reali lookin 4ward… bt den… its juz like a scale… there is always good n bad.. angels n devils…
especially when pple surroundin encounter so mani marital prob… its start makin me lost confidence n faith in marriage… kind of silly…bt den i reali does…
I had frien after ROM discovered hubby is havin affairs n eventually end up divorcing…
I had frien after marriage n had kids after so mani years den husband is having affair…
of coz nt always women r e victims..
i had also heard abt wife r e 1 playin ard after marriage….
i was goin home w my collegue n she told me tis incident abt herself… of coz lucky e husband realised in time e mistake n no obvious damaged was created.. bt den it definitely coz so cracks 2 e marriages… (believe it or nt… ) bt definitely she was reali a strong woman … if i were her.. i reali dn knw hw 2 deal w it… forgive e man…. i dn knw.. bt den for e sake of e children i tin mani woman would do so rt??? hw great women r…
i dn kwn if i could also do e same…
smtimes i tin i would nv gt married bah.. coz i loved myself so much.. i wan pple 2 love n care for me n nt 2 hurt me…. so since marriage is such a big gamble… mayb i wil choose nt 2 gt involved…… is it e reason y he choose nt 2 gt involved?????? i tin it could b part of e reason….
so whoever nw is happily married w a lovin spouse should stay as lovin…. cont 2 love n b loved… b blessed n treasured wat u had…. blessed
