into pooh’s world…………

sm1 told me smtin regardin reverse pyscho…. am i actuali doin it?? in e 1st place i muz knw wat it is all abt.. so…

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Reverse psychology is a persuasion technique that involves the false advocacy of a belief or behavior contrary to the belief or behavior that is actually being advocated. This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of reactance, in which a person has a (typically negative) emotional response in reaction to being persuaded, and thus chooses the option that is being advocated against.

Is reverse psychology effective?

Yes it is, if you avoided the two common pitfalls people fail to avoid which are 1) using it against the wrong person and 2) over using it.

Reverse psychology works best with narcissists, over confident people, people having exaggerated self worth and stubborn people. As for the first three, it works because those people think that they can do anything in the world and that’s why using such phrases ignites their fighting spirits making them wanting to prove you wrong.

Stubborn people on the other hand hate to be faced with one option but instead they like to see all the options available for them to choose from, when you tell them that the only option is that they will fail they will do their best to prove you wrong.

so frm e above example.. tin it wil work on me?? so i better learn more on it.. n applied it..

i tin i hav tried understanding it.. bt den. . . nt easy..
tot reserve psycho is smtin easy..bt den.. i tin its diff then my nursing theories.. anyway.. after my assignments and exams.. i should learn more on it.. mayb it wil help me..  

however.. dn care abt wat pple is sayin or tinin..
if pple r 2 complicated.. hw cn i b simple…

tis few days im hapi.. mayb due 2 e ‘reserve psycho’ tat pple tin im usin.. i dn knw.. mayb true.. if tats e case.. isnt it great??

 

anyway whoever read tis n knw wat reserve psycho is all.. pls enlighten me.. thx

sis i missed u.. u knw tis am wen we were msn-in… hai.. i reali miss u.. hai.. cnt cont if nt i tin i wil cry.. hai.. sis.. u take care.. im fine.. dn wori.. u knw sis is strong gal.. we r fine here anyway..

anyway had found a song which is v nice.. for u. . . . . anyway.. lookin 4ward 2 dec til we meet.. rem.. take care til we meet.. lots 2 catch up k.. muack..

 

刘若英—落跑新娘

这个决定是多么艰难
爱你却选择离开
并不是我总把孤单当成习惯
未来并不如想像中简单
我也不是不需要疼爱
你永远无可取代
再不敢唱起那歌词最后一排
有个男孩爱着那女孩
抱歉我
我知道自己不负责任
虽然我
很认真想过和你过一生
为什么会逃避这一刻
你握住我的手
越温暖越疼
抱歉我
我应该对自己负责任
当你说
你都能理解我痛苦失神
害怕失去一个人
才想回到一个人
我会
把这份爱存放在心的最底层
我也不是不需要疼爱
你永远无可取代
再不敢唱起那歌词最后一排
有个男孩爱着那女孩
抱歉我
我知道自己不负责任
虽然我
很认真想过和你过一生
为什么会逃避这一刻
当朋友都羡慕现在的我们
抱歉
我这次想对自己负责任
当你说
你都能理解我痛苦失神
害怕失去一个人
才想回到一个人
我会把这份爱
深藏在心的最底层

这个决定是多么艰难
爱你却选择离开
再遗憾也好过不快乐的分开
你会懂得这是我的爱

 

还是好朋友

比爱人长久

不能牵的手按在心头

在最寂寞的关头永远在左右

事过情迁后
(升华以后）升华眼泪后

思念是最漫长的享受
(漫长的享受）

那无痛的伤口还带着温柔到白头

 

 

 

 i tot i wil b so strong n nt affected at all.. afterall it had been so long liao mah.. bt den.. who knw.. wen i was bloggin tis.. i am actuali cryin.. stupid.. silly.. bt afterall im human.. wel.. bt den i promise myself. tis is e last time i wil cry for u.. after 2day.. no more liao.. u wil stay as a special friend.. ya..

my dearest Jackson. (by e time i posted tis..meanin i cn face it all.. )anyway whoever read tis.. pls dn ask me anytin anymore liao k… thx

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

坐在这角落
心里很多话想说
我和你的错
就是舍不得放手
深爱你的我
早就应该让你自由
知道我以后
需要一直往前走
也许是越在乎
越会彼此的伤害
这样的爱情
又算是什么
爱不在
应该让自己从回忆中离开
爱不在
我们都不存在彼此未来
有时候
不管对爱有多少的依赖
就算再不愿再伤心
我明白
我们只能放手

爱不在

sad song.. bt den.. meaningful.. dn cry wen u listen 2 tis k…
im learning 2… had oreoli knew it v long.. bt 2 face it.. its reali reali difficult.. or mayb juz 2 lazy… bt den.. i promise i wil do it.. 2 prove 2 every1 n also 2 him.. i cn do it… juz bless me k??

 

i tin smhw or rather.. im blessed.. i hope i am.. anyway juz being thxful

tat day suddenly he msg me sayin he had smtin for me.. so hapi n surprised.. coz y suddenly had smtin for me.. of coz.. e nex day wen  i met him.. keke i was touched.. wel.. by e tin he passed 2 me.. hai he is a v thoughful n sweet guy.. he stil rem e tin had casually remarked.. in anyway im thxful.. wel.. he is reali a sweet n nice guy.. who smhw or rather appeared at a wrong timin .. bt den.. thx u..

had planned for a day outdoor.. wantin 2 go ecp for sm sun.. coz e past few days had been rainin.. so was reali prayin ‘dn rain…’ my prayers is heard?? it reali didnt rain.. thx u..

bt den who knw.. wasted e sunny pm.. coz.. by e time they pick me n e rest.. n wen we reached ecp.. its oreoli 5… after eatin.. sun is settin.. n moon is greetin us.. alamak.. bt of coz didnt waste our trip… so managed 2 cycle n blade (zl)…

den.. after tat urge 2 sing. so headed dwn 2 a ktv pub.. ’sing’ amm was disappointed.. bt den managed 2 had a drink..

eventuali had sm food n headed hm.. wel wel..

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had accomplished mani tins ..

given hc e handmade card… a little support frm me..

e card n choco specially for bro… juz like e frog on e card.. leap by leap.. u wil gt better.. im sure u cn.. dn disppoint me..

e card n sweets for my special friend.. he is officially named special friend.. i reali hope e card reflected all my feelin.. tis is e 1st time.. after readin my card.. he had response..

reali dn knw if i cn reali do it.. bt den i wil try my v best.. in fact had been reali tryin.. 1 day?? i dn knw.. bt den i reali hope so.. wish me all e best k…

tired. . . . .

lastly..

i am reali reali glad 2 see u improvin day by day … it wont b overnight.. juz nd time.. hw much longer? ? nvm.. we wil give u all e time.. bt promise nt 2 long.. k… i saw e ’sometin’ is off??? hard 2 take it off… wel its normal.. bt den.. e most impt learn 2 let go.. nt easy rt?? bt in fact.. im v v v proud of u.. u knw.. i had learnt frm u …

i didnt tel u face 2 face.. coz hard for me 2 say mah… bt den.. wel done..believe me.. bt both of us agreed u had done a great job… jia you k.. r u great

 

 

原来爱情是这样这样峰回路转
泪水明明流不干瞎了眼还要再爱一趟
有一天终于打完思念的一场战
回过头再看一看
原来爱情那么伤
下次还会不会这样

我眼泪都笑了谁还想哭呢
再勇敢的站着找回光和热
面对你的时候我不会舍不得
因为你已是过客因为路有些曲折
是美的

你眼泪都笑了谁还会哭呢
来不及完美的就唱首骊歌
想起你的时候我不是卑微的
反而我没有遗憾因为我已爱过你
深深的

tis song is for u…

was reali glad.. i cn hear n reali sense tat e old u is cmin back.. wel.. i am reali glad… wel i tin e rest wil also tin tis way…

reali glad u had learnt n grow thru tis incident…

friend… promise u wil b stronger…. stronger.. n stronger… jia you…

lots of word tat i cnt say face 2 face.. of coz.. dn wan 2 bring it up.. bt den i am v glad tat i cn see u r gtin stronger.. yes? i reali hope tat e case…

i told u.. its ok 2 cry… cry it out.. bt promise…juz 一下下 ok? u knw it break nt onli my heart bt definitely e rest wen we see u broke dwn.. bt den … i knw u cn do it.. e past 1 week u had been doin wel… jia you…

rem e song i sung?

看世界还在继续运转
不因为我眼泪停一下
直到我清楚的想通
爱情不是唯一的靠山
春去秋来流转的时光
我总会走出悲伤迷团
爱过的记忆成营养
今后多爱自己一下

u knw it rt?? so bad of u 2 say nt nice huh.. bt who cares? haha.. u knw e ultimate meanin attached…

of coz.. stronger nt onli applied for u..4 me 2.. i tin i wil also try my best 2 strong enough in order 2 support u..

jia you…..

如果想哭我自己会找地方
你不必担心我会弄湿你肩膀
走在街上到处是寂寞的人
我想谁都不要同情的眼光
受一点伤并不是可怕的事
人就是这样才会愈来愈坚强
谁叫男人永远比女人清楚
爱情它何时该收何时该放
你走吧我不哭无论多痛苦
你走吧我不哭就算会迷路
明天一个人的我依然会微笑
虽然它或许也是伤心的开始
爱情的轮回总是一次又一次
是悲是喜终将都变成往事
明天一个人的我依然会微笑
那怕早已没有人记得我名字
别问我为何执迷不悟的尝试
女人生来就多这么一点痴

specially dedicated for u.. u knw… wel.. e songs r so meaningful.. at least 2 me..
jia you.. rem
明天一个人的我依然会微笑
虽然它或许也是伤心的开始
爱情的轮回总是一次又一次
是悲是喜终将都变成往事

promise… wont give up on u.. unless u wan 2 give up urself…

u knw we care… so much for u.. n of coz.. it reali e hardest period for u.. bt no matter wat.. we r all ard u…

i might b of e least help.. since im e most emotional 1.. bt den i wil stay strong 2 b juz there.. difficult for me also..

bt i wil hang on 4 u.. jia you.. e bubbly u wil b back soon…

this week is tough for u.. anyway do take gd care of urself.. sick liao muz rest wel… n get back 2 shape soon.. jia you.. blessin u